Are you cheating on your wife?
Do you know your wife is hurting very badly?
Continue reading and find out why!
I have seen some horrific videos on social media lately that I wish I never watched.
Maybe you also watched these videos.
These were videos of women getting violent with their cheating husbands.
REVENGE OF THE SPURNED WOMEN
In the first video a woman used a padlock to mash her husband’s genitals together.
Now why would she do such a terrible thing? According to the story, she caught her husband cheating.
She pretended she was okay, lured him to bed and laced his drink afterwards with Valium. When he was totally slammed out, she took her terrible revenge by forcing his genitalia inside a padlock!
In the second video, an African woman allegedly had evidence that her husband cheated on her with her best friend!
He also impregnated his wife’s best friend!
His wife lured him to bed, and gave him some wild bed jingles to send him into deep slumber.
Then she upended a cupful of undiluted acid on his genitals.
He was rushed to hospital, and died a few days later!
She said she didn’t mean to kill him. She just wanted to teach him a lesson but, alas, it turned into a fatal decision!
This white lady found her husband cheating. She forgave him, to all intents and purposes.
She then organized a party later to prove that life was sunny again.
The husband was filled with remorse, but he was mighty glad that his wife had forgiven him. He was seen dancing happily with his wife, lost in the tranquil streams of blissful joy.
And that was when his wife drew a knife, stepped up, and slit his throat from ear to ear, killing him within a few minutes!
Those were absolutely horrific and horrendous scenarios that happened in real life!
They give a true meaning of the cliche that ‘hell hath no fury than a woman spurned!”
The question is, why couldn’t they control themselves?
Why were those women so mean, so brutal, so incredibly cruel?
Well, you don’t have to be Merlin to know the answer.
These women were hurting!
Yes, that is what a woman goes through when her husband cheats:
A maelstrom of volcanic and acidic pain, a heart-wrenching feeling of deep agony so deep that nothing seems to soothe it!
Yes, women also hurt, and when they do it is terrible!
It is a pain men will never understand because we can never really feel it.
It is the kind of pain that cripples reason and ceases the beating of the heart
That kind of pain makes a woman feel like death is a way out…
Married men have cheated from time immemorial, so it’s nothing new, right?
I’m not condoning the sickening actions of those women who mauled their cheating husbands, no, not by a very long shot!
But it is a wake up call for married men to realize that women also hurt badly!
I’ve come across various reasons why married men cheat, ranging from the reasonable to the downright absurd!
Some men even put a sort of mathematical computation to the whole issue! They derive their selfish permutations from the biblical verse in Isaiah 4:1 which states that:
“In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”
Furthermore, they claim that the society understands cheating husbands!
Are we men more human than women?
Wait a minute, are women made with different materials than men?
Do women feel pain differently than men?
Does a woman have two hearts instead of one?
We are all human beings…and we all feel pain!
Women are not super-metallic humans!
They also feel pain…they also HURT!
But, more importantly, GOD does not accept CHEATING HUSBANDS!
So forget whether society accepts it or not!
Once an act is detestable in the eyes of God, the argument ends there!
Some men say that there are fewer men in the world than women.
They have this absolutely absurd permutation to prove the shortage of men:
Mad men plus homosexual men plus imprisoned men equals MEN SHORTAGE!
Oh, my goodness!
Can you believe that?
So that is ample justification to cheat on the woman you vowed to love for eternity, through all the vagaries of life?
Historically, men were allowed to marry more than one wife.
Some religions also allow this practice.
In those days, women were mostly forced into arranged marriages.
The deep emotional pains they went through were hidden under this facade:
“That ‘the man did you a favour by marrying you, so gird up your loins and accept anything he throws at you.”
So, in the past, women had no say in their husbands’ infidelities!
In their time, cheating was virtually a normal abnormality!
THE MODERN WOMAN
Now we slam into the modern era!
Married women nowadays are not the bed-warmers and house-keepers their grandmothers were!
The modern woman is educated, and she more often than not marries for LOVE!
Arranged marriages are slowly becoming a practice of the past.
Nowadays women marry mostly because they love, and they wish to commit.
Sometimes they are more educated than their husbands!
Some women are even earning more income than their husbands!
In most homes women contribute equally, and sometimes MORE, towards the financial obligations of the house!
So here’s the scenario:
She met you, fell in love with you, and agreed to be your life partner.
She’s here now, keeping you company and getting pregnant for you.
She is cooking for you, washing for you, taking care of your kids!
She works and contributes financially.
And she keeps you warm at nights!
More often than not, husbands stop helping out with washing clothes and cleaning house.
They consider cooking to be the woman’s sole prerogative.
They never take care of kids apart from providing money for their upkeep!
Men enjoy time with friends and time in front of the television or computer.
Drinking binges are the norm. Hanging out with the gang over beers and kebab or pork meat is the heaven!
Blowing time with the side-chick is the kingdom, boss!
And yeah, a man is gotta wear his crown!
Cheating men rarely have time for their wives because all the energies are spent on the side-chick.
And wives accommodate them with minimal complaints!
Our wives have become almost SLAVES!
We have stopped saying those sweet words they so love to hear:
“Honey, can I help?”
“Darling, how was your day?”
“Sweetheart, I love you!”
Our wives are taking all our crap, literally, and then we end up cheating on them crazily, despite all their best efforts!
THE ROLE REVERSAL
Now, hold it, take just one moment to visualize the following scenario:
If you’re a married man, and you’re cheating on your wife right now, just picture this:
Mentally exchange roles with your wife now.
Assume you’re the one doing all these labours she is currently engaged in:
Cooking, washing, organizing, planning, working, getting pregnant, giving birth, taking care of the house!
And of course still keeping the bed warm!
Imagine you’re doing all these for your partner, and one day you find her cheating on you.
So, after you cook for your wive, wash for her, get pregnant for her (role reversal, remember?), clean children poo, raise them up, clean house, work, share in house expenses…after all these she still cheats on you!
Would you really accept ANY REASON she gives you for cheating?
Hell, no! You just wouldn’t!
WOMEN ALSO HURT!
Women are fragile.
They are more emotionally-sensitive than men.
Forget the cliche that “God made women stronger!”
It doesn’t have any scientific proof.
The opposite, however, has been proven: women are deeply and emotionally hurt when we treat them like trash!
When a wife cheats, the man’s pain is mostly centered on a ‘macho’ bruised ego on the sexual scale.
He feels disrespected and inferior.
True, on a few occasions great sex does play a role in a woman’s decision to cheat.
Mostly, though, a woman’s reasons for cheating are deep-seated and emotional.
They almost hinge all the time on the simple reason that she feels abandoned, unloved, and all alone!
She just needs a little bit of attention!
We are hurting our wives by our cheating behaviour, guys.
We must do away with the flimsy excuse that ‘when men cheat it means nothing because when we make love to a different woman, that’s it, there’s no love attached, just a need to satisfy our lust!’
That is bulldrop, and we know it!
There is no reason whatsoever to cheat on our wives, none!
Whatever pain we would feel if we find our wives cheating, well they feel that pain five times more when we cheat on them!
So, it is time to pack that undisciplined organ back into the trousers and head home to your wife.
Go back to those loving days, and make her happy.
It is not as hard as you think.
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